Alcohol addiction is a serious disease, and it has the tendency to spread like gangrene to the spouse and family members even though they do not drink.
Now when the spouse comes home late, say 3.00am... everybody else sleeps late, because they worry about him/her.
therefore all family members tend to wake up with a hangover, even though they never drank any alcohol, because they had a "worry filled night" Not an alcohol filled night.
When the spouse cannot wake up to go to work, and delays he must give an excuse, most times the wife has to lie on his behalf because he cannot answer the phone...he is dead asleep....
she lies to protect her husband, his income, which she needs for sustenance and his name. So alcoholics are consummate liars, they also cause their spouses and their CHILDREN to adopt the same behaviour. The child sees her mother lie for and on behalf of the father, and she picks that up. The mother may ask her to answer the phone while she attends to an emergency, the child answers the phone, and lies....she has seen her mother do it countless of times.
Alcoholics also isolate themselves from normal family activities because those activities interfere with the desire to feed the addiction, when that happens the wife cannot be fully involved in normal family activities, because some of them include the support of the husband. She must give excuses.
But what exactly is alcohol addiction?
It can be defined as:
"increased tolerance, causing the abuser to drink greater amounts of alcohol to achieve the same desired effect."
The American Council for Drug Education termes signs and symptoms of substance abuse thus:
Smell of alcohol on breath
Irritability
Euphoria
Loss of physical coordination
Inappropriate or violent behavior
Loss of balance
Unsteady gait
Slurred and/or incoherent speech
Loss of consciousness
Slowed thinking
Depression
Impaired short-term memory
Blackouts"
They also state in part thus:
"When a person consumes alcohol, the drug acts on nerve cells deep in the brain. Alcohol initially serves as a stimulant, then induces feelings of relaxation and reduced anxiety. Consumption of two or three drinks in an hour can impair judgment, lower inhibitions, and induce mild euphoria. Five drinks consumed in two hours may raise the blood alcohol level to 0.10 percent, high enough to be considered intoxicated."
But let us look at this from another perspective....
Woe to those who rise early in the morning to run after their drinks, who stay up late at night till they are inflamed with wine.
They have harps and lyres at their banquets, tambourines and flutes and wine, but they have no regard for the deeds of the LORD, no respect for the work of his hands.
Therefore my people will go into exile for lack of understanding;their men of rank will die of hunger and their masses will be parched with thirst.
Therefore the grave enlarges its appetite and opens its mouth without limit; into it will descend their nobles and masses with all their brawlers and revelers.
So man will be brought low and mankind humbled,the eyes of the arrogant humbled
(Isaiah 5:11-15)
Embedded in this text are several truths.....
* There is a woe prepared for the drinker by God, look at the picture, the scenario painted by the prophet,
he describes the bars, and discos, and music halls that sell the drink, he describes the music instruments of meriment back in their days
He declares his THEREFORE..THE CONSEQUENCES in these terms
* They go into exile, exile is not home, it is away from home, 90% of alcoholics only use their home to sleep off their hangovers, they do not see their children growing up, they do not cultivate a relationship with their children, they are already alienated from their spouse and children, they have been exiled!!!!
* The second is serious, it says " men of rank will die of hunger and their massess will be perched with thirst"
do you know what the symptoms of withdrawal are? The American Council for Drugs Education describes them thus...
" Tremors
Agitation
Anxiety and panic attacks
Paranoia and delusions
Hallucinations (usually visual)
Nausea and vomiting
Increased body temperature
Elevated blood pressure and heart rate
Convulsions
Seizures"
This is an accurate description of perched with thirst, they are in the throes of death, it is a consequence of making wine their god, and totally disregarding the deeds of the LORD.All addicts must go through a hard time to break the addiction.
* Then there is the inevitable consequence after death, this text does not even try to go round it, it talks of HELL, the final resting place of the damned, if they continue to pursue this course, the grave is said to ENLARGE ITS APPETITE, opening its mouth without limit to HUMBLE the nobles and the arrogant.
Addiction is a condition as we said...And in scripture there are always answers.
Now before we get to the anwers to this in scripture I want to examine a certain myth in Roman pantheology.
In Roman pantheology there was a god of wine and intoxication called bacchus. His festival was celebrated on March 16 and 17. The Bacchanalia, orgies in honor of Dionysus the same as bacchus, were introduced in Rome around 200 BC. These infamous celebrations, notorious for their sexual and criminal character, got so out of hand that they were forbidden by the Roman Senate in 186 BC. Bacchus is also identified with the old-Italian god Liber. (for liberality)
These kind of tales by the way are sometimes very important in dealing with the root cause of the problem, Bacchus is the original derivative of the word baccy where you get the now tobacco. He is the god of wines and spirits...so, you will find that actually this is devil worship, there are actually songs composed in beer dens in worship and adoration of beer, some even call beer their first wife. In some cases the Lords prayer has been re-written to incorporate alcohol...eg
" Our Father
Who art in the bar
Give us our daily dose of wine.." etc
Now there is a reason the GOD of heaven hates idolatry
1. if you look at the worship of bacchus above you will see the fruit.
* crime
*sexual immorality
*liberality (doing whatever you want in disregard to those around you)
It got so bad that it was banned. Satan cause one to remove ALL INHIBITIONS....
Then he chains you, puts you in bondage...lets look at some interesting scriptures...
The case of Zedekiah the King of Judah is very interesting. Jeremiah the prophet speaking the word of GOD to him told him that if he would surrender to Nebbucchadnezzar King of Babylon he would live,(Jer 27:12) but he rejected the Word of God.
And this is what happened to him....
" Then he(Nebbuchadnezzar) put out Zedekiah’s eyes and bound him with bronze shackles to take him to Babylon." (Jer 39:7)
Because the King rejected the word of God, he was BOUND IN BRONZE SHACKLES and his EYES WERE PUT OUT.
Do you know, that bondage and blindness co-exist. One is the result of the other, addiction is caused because of disregard to the danger of excessive drinking(blindness), the King was put in chains, I want to suggest to you that the route to addiction starts with the taste,(enticement) at the first drink you can stop, there is no chain, as you progress, satan starts shackling the chains around you, with time they are tied tighter and heavier and heavier and heavier, until at some point you just cannot stop!!!!
It is written....
Some sat in darkness and the deepest gloom, prisoners suffering in iron chains,
for they had rebelled against the words of God and despised the counsel of the Most High.
So he subjected them to bitter labor; they stumbled, and there was no one to help. (Psalms 107:10-12)
The darkness and gloom, is the last position of an addict, many begin to become suicidal, they know that they are in bondage, because of their rebellion.
BUT THERE IS A WAY OUT!!!! HALELUHYA!!!!
There are several scriptures that show that shackles and chains can be broken... lets look at a few...
Then they cried to the LORD in their trouble, and he saved them from their distress.
He brought them out of darkness and the deepest gloom and broke away their CHAINS.
(Psalms 107:13-14)
Listen to me..they cried out, fervently, desperately, determinedly to the Lord, the hebrew word used there is zaak...literally to shriek...
And he did it, he broke the chains...
Remember the story of Paul and Silas?...
So Peter was kept in prison, but the church was earnestly praying to God for him.
The night before Herod was to bring him to trial, Peter was sleeping between two soldiers, bound with two chains, and sentries stood guard at the entrance.
Suddenly an angel of the Lord appeared and a light shone in the cell. He struck Peter on the side and woke him up. “Quick, get up!” he said, and the chains fell off Peter’s wrists.(Acts 12:5-7)
Do you know that it is written....
" He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him" ? (Heb 11:6)
There are several steps to follow here....
1. You must accept that you have that condition. You must agree with God that you have sinned, you have become a worshipper of bacchus, and have practiced idolatry!
You must agree that you ARE ADDICTED.
2. You must REPENT of that lifestyle, REPENT means to turn away...the greek word for repent is " metanoia" which means to change ones mind, direction, ways....
3. You must RENOUNCE that lifestyle, it must become your MOST SEVERE enemy. It is Satanic worship!!!!! It has no place in your life now
4. You must accept JESUS CHRIST in your heart. No option, he is the chain breaker, no other one is effective, have you ever heard of relapses...those are other methods.... good but they dont have the Lord Jesus in it.
It is written...
"Whom the Son sets free is FREE INDEED!!!" John 8:36
5. Unrelenting prayer and fasting.
It is written...
"such will not come out except by prayer and fasting" Matthew 17:21
PRAY THIS PRAYER...
DEAR LORD...I AGREE WITH YOUR WORD THAT I AM A SINNER, I ASK YOU TO FORGIVE ME FOR ALL MY SINS. I HAVE BEEN A WORSHIPPER OF BACCHUS AND I HAVE GIVEN HIM MANY SACRIFICES, EVEN SACRIFICING MY FAMILY AT THE ALTAR OF BACCHUS.
I HAVE DENIED MY CONDITION I HAVE LIED AND ALIENATED MY FAMILY AND LIED TO MY EMPLOYERS..FORGIVE ME.
IN MY OWN STRENGTH I ACKNOWLEDGE THAT I CANNOT BREAK THESE CHAINS AWAY, ACCORDING TO YOUR WORD CAN BREAK ANY CHAINS PLEASE BREAK THESE CHAINS OF ADDICTION TO (MENTION THEM).....AROUND ME DEAR LORD
I RENOUNCE ALL SATANIC WORSHIP, ALL DRINKING AND ALL SINS OCCASSIONED BY THESE DRINKING SPREES
I ASK YOU LORD TO COME AND TAKE OVER MY LIFE, AND BE MY LORD AND SAVIOUR.
I NOW COMMAND THE SPIRIT OF BACCHUS AND ALL HIS MINIONS TO LEAVE ME RIGHT NOW AND GO TO THE PLACE WHERE GOD WILL TAKE THEM AND NEVER RETURN IN JESUS NAME AMEN
please remember, to some their healing will be instant, to others it will require ministry teams to do it, but this is my final statement,
NEVER GIVE UP UNTIL YOU FIND YOU FREEDOM
MAY YOUR HEALING COME
CAPTAIN GADAR PERETZ ALIAS SAMUEL GITARI
